Dame Products
Dame Com
The Dame Com takes a different approach to hands-free couples stimulation than the Eva II. Instead of wings that anchor to the labia, the Com uses a suction-cup-like base that adheres to the clitoris and surrounding area, held in place by gentle negative pressure rather than mechanical anchoring.
The result is a smaller, lighter toy that’s less dependent on labia anatomy — but more dependent on proper seal creation.
Suction + Vibration
The Com combines two stimulation types:
Suction: The Com’s oval opening creates a seal around the clitoris and applies gentle negative pressure — a mild holding suction that keeps the toy in position and adds a drawing sensation around the clitoral tissue.
Vibration: A motor in the toy’s body adds vibration against the clitoris. The vibration and suction work simultaneously, creating a layered sensation distinct from either alone.
This combination is effective for users who respond well to suction-type stimulation. Users who prefer pressure-wave or traditional vibration may find the Com less compelling.
Hands-Free During Sex
The Com’s suction anchoring works in positions where there’s no direct compression against the toy. In missionary or positions with body weight on the toy, the seal breaks. Works best in positions with space between partners or during rear-entry positions.
Comparison to Eva II: The Eva II’s wing design works in more positions (particularly missionary) than the Com’s suction design. The Com works better in positions where wings would shift.
Anatomy Fit
The Com’s oval opening (approximately 1.5 × 0.75 inches) fits most anatomies. Users with smaller clitoral areas may find the seal difficult to create consistently. Dame provides guidance on their website.
Controls
Two buttons: one for suction intensity (3 levels), one for vibration intensity and patterns (3 speeds, 4 patterns). Independent control of both systems is useful — some users prefer suction only, others prefer vibration only, most use both.
Build Quality
Medical-grade silicone. IPX7 waterproof. USB-C charging. Compact and light — easy to travel with.
Verdict
A genuinely novel couples toy for users interested in suction stimulation during sex. More position-limited than the Eva II, but the suction + vibration combination is a distinct and effective sensation. Strong value at $95.
Score: 8.2/10
Dame Com
Free shipping · Discreet packaging · 1-year warranty